i started courting my girlfriend--a born in dub--when i was 18--she 17 . Both virgins. We never went "all the way"--but came pretty close. Oral sex most weekends.
We got married when i was 20. The marriage somehow lasted 13 years--till i played away with another married sister. Instant divorce.
since then ive been married 3 more times..in between had numerous sexual adventures.
I'm 73 now--happily married to my lovely wife 23 years younger than me..and everything works just fine.